You think this helps? People are saying that you have made an effort to be a better poster. I see very little evidence of that.
How hard have you looked? Beyond this thread?
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He uses “shitlibs” and similar invectives in many of his posts. Possibly he has tempered this lately.
Sounds like you haven’t really been paying attention and people who have have said they’ve noticed a difference. Not sure why you’d feel the need to chime in.
Because I was called an asshole by one of the worst posters in this forum this morning. Glad I could clear that up for you.
Also looping watevs into his argument did not help. Victors is posting way better. Watevs is still hands down the worst poster on this forum or any forum I follow.
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Vic was right to be upset, obv but his reaction reminded me of this.
Cliffs: “you’re being unreasonable, John … Get the fk over it”
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Not even one person here said the insult/attack was justified?
No idea why vic is so butthurt about that post.
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The post is gone so maybe you didn’t see it. It was offensive and unnecessary.
Either way no need to keep this fight going. It’s been dealt with.
Pretty sure that was a joke.
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Oh my bad. sarcasm is dead I guess. Lol
It really feels that way sometimes.
Damn you reality for being so unreal!
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you’re a liar
nah. I’m really not:
This wasn’t even a potshot, it was a direct reply and attack at me and how I post a lot in the mental health thread. You also recently referred to me as trying to cast myself as some kind of “mental health guru” which again is a direct reference to something personal on the website.
I don’t know if it is actionable on me and I’ll gladly eat a ban for this, but you are the liar.
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He could be referring to your blog thread and not the mental health one, so he can rest his claim on a technicality, but it’s still an inappropriate line for him to take.
he explicitly stated he does not read my blog:
I do not want to cause any drama. But I will not ignore being called a liar about something that is so easily proven to be truth.
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Jmakin demonstrated that he wasn’t lying.
I’m not banning anyone else today for anything.
I’m not going to review all of your posts, but do you think you post more than the average poster about mental health in the parts of the forum that are not your blog or the mental health thread or can another poster only discern your interest in the area from your posting in those threads?
My main point is that I suspect someone can form an opinion that you care about the topic of mental health without going into the two threads where you talk about it the most. I’m sure you mention it a decent amount in talking about dealing with COVID. Part of your forum persona is someone with a justifiable concern that other posters may try to weaponize mental health concerns against you because it’s been done before.
I’m guessing that threads dealing with COVID and health care are among the threads that you are most likely to post about mental health and also the threads that watevs is most likely to pay close attention to. That makes me sad, because his pressing this point means that he either doesn’t understand the importance of this topic and why it should be one where discussion should be more protected on this forum or it means he knows exactly what he is doing and he’s lashing out in a way that is intended to cause emotional pain. And he just seems too smart to be the former.
And to be clear, I get why he is angry. You made a bad assumption and you shouldn’t have, but being mistaken isn’t the same as being a willful liar. That doesn’t justify his response, but I also don’t think it means he should be cut off from expressing anger. If he goes a bit too far, then simply flagging and hiding the post seems like the fair moderation, It’s only when it goes way too far or goes on for too long that it should require a firmer mod hand.
that’s a very charitable interpretation of his posting and I appreciate you typing that out, but I feel it just adds more to his unfair characterization that I cast myself as some sort of mental health guru. I advocate strongly for mental health. I probably have done so outside of the mental health thread where appropriate.
Sorry if I am prolonging this derail/discussion but I’m showing an unbelievable amount of restraint right now and I am going to just let this go.
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