2 more proposed rules to vote on. I’m combining them in one post because rule votes get banner treatment, and there can only be one banner at a time.
Proposed Rule 1: Mods should recuse themselves from taking action on a flagged post when they authored the post. [For details, see discussion in this thread.]
Adopt Proposed Rule 1 regarding moderators recusing from acting on their own posts
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No
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Proposed Rule 2: David Sklansky should be banned from posting on this site. [For details, see discussion in this thread.]
Adopt Proposed Rule 2 regarding banning David Sklansky
Yes
No
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Both polls close 11:59pm, September 3rd (Eastern). This is your thread to advocate for or against each rule.
For the record, I’m very ambivalent about the second proposed rule. If we adopt this rule, it’s implicitly approving a structure where any user can be perma-banned from the site without any moderator action, as long as 60% of users vote in favor.
So I think the second proposed rule actually embeds two questions:
Should we apply perma-bans based on a 60% community vote?
Assuming yes, should Sklansky be subject to to a perma-ban?
I think it would be useful/healthy to have a disussion about that in this thread.
I don’t know that it really matters when it happens. I understand that you don’t feel like you were listened to. Hey, imagine that! Happens to women every day. People were talking about Weinstein for years before his fall, and no one listened. Are they upset? maybe a little. But I bet they are still happy that he’s been basically banished from polite society now.
Better late than never.
All the “concerns” i see in this thread about a slippery slope, etc are just the same bullshit concerns we see every damned day about this stuff. We recognize it there, so why is it so hard to see it in ourselves? It’s infuriating.
David Sklansky, Bill Cosby, Harvey Weinstein, and their ilk should never ever be allowed to post here. I don’t give a good goddamn that Sklansky hasn’t posted problematic stuff here. It’s like an actor saying she never had a bad interaction with Weinstein, so it can’t possibly be as bad as all that.
I have never personally interacted with David Sklansky. I don’t care. He doesn’t belong here.
Perhaps I slightly misspoke in my first post. let me clarify.
EVEN less welcoming and even more uncomfortable…
It just becomes a normal state of being for women. ANYWHERE on the internet. Life in general. There’s always the constant knowledge in the back of your mind that predators are out there. Do I wish we’d have had this convo/action back then? Absolutely. I wish we’d have this convo every fucking day. But we don’t.
So we abide, and learn to live with it, until it reaches a critical mass that cannot be ignored. Just like Weinstein, and Cosby, and all the others that have come about years after initial reports.
Am I saddened? sure. but I’m always saddened when it’s just the same shit, different day. Do I blame them? eh, hard to say, because change is hard. Part of me is happy that they’ve maybe changed their views enough. Part of me is sad that these things have to reach a critical mass before anything actually happens.
That being said, it looks like, once again, nothing will happen…so the “at least there are some people voting yes” side of me wins out.
I am the failson. Truly an honor to have been bestowed with that title by the anonymous losers circlejerking around these parts of the internet. You can also call me Mat. On the fucking myself, I would appreciate more direction. I do fuck myself quite frequently in a variety of ways, but always with the intent of actually pleasuring myself. I suspect you are hoping I will voluntarily fuck myself in a way that is not pleasurable? I probably will not follow your directions, but who knows? Fill me in.
Anyway. I don’t know why you idiots set up such a complicated system. And I don’t care. Just ban David, and know that you will be helping me out. Because I know you all really love me a lot. Deep down. And I hope you fuck yourselves too. In a pleasurable way.
i will happily have that conversation in person with anyone that finds themselves in Vegas and some time on their hands. my number is 702-353-8844, It will take place on a hike in the Mt Charleston or Redrock canyon area.