Did a gig in Canada and offended them so much he had death threats.
Did a gig in London and called the Kings Cross fire (when ~30 people died) a “fucking good start”.
"Hello moosefuckers! I tell you why I hate Canada, half of you speak French, and the other half let them
Why don’t you speak Indian? You might as well speak the language of the people you stole the country off of in the first place."
It depends on which one. On average, it’s mid-40s. One has a younger crowd of people in their late-20s, 30s and 40s. Another has lots of members in their 50s and 60s.
I was. I’ve been on several and a few committees. This type of thing takes management like any other club. In fact, more so as vetting is critical and making sure rules are followed is the bedrock of them functioning. If people, especially women don’t feel comfortable they don’t survive.
If there’s one thing clovis is famous for it’s swinging. Him being on the board of a club should not be a shocker. If you want juicy details you should probably pretend to be mature about it and try to tease them out. After that you can be immature.
That’s totally fair and a common misunderstanding. I’ve been on a ton of boards, both swinging, NGOs and corporate. The swinging ones are as serious, or more so, sometimes.
There are different kinds of clubs so swinging is a bit of a misnomer. Swinging is traditionally heterosexual and mostly free of S&M. Thankfully the lines are blurring more and more. Some clubs have a heavy S&M vibe. Others don’t have any of that.
You will see people of all ages, races, ethnicities and body types. That’s my favourite thing about them.
One has an actual form but most don’t. All require an introduction, often best coming from existing member. Then you are invited to a meeting.
For clubs with an S&M component the first meeting is always over coffee with other members. Nothing sexual happens. It’s an introduction and interview.
For more vanilla clubs, sometimes the “interview” happens at a play event. If so you are normally not allowed to play the first time.
Membership is always conditional on following the rules and there is always a zero tolerance in terms of consent.
Men normally, but not always, have to be accompanied by a woman. Men are also vetted more stringently than woman.
Common reasons for rejection include, having been kicked out of another club or event, making it seem like consent is not important to you, making body shaming or racial comments or being clearly not really into it but being forced by a partner.