But they refer to it as a woodie.
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Irreversible flaccidity
But what is the decision-making process among the board after the introduction/interview? Is it just, āNot a jerk! Welcome!ā or is there a more formal discussion? If so, what does the discussion focus on regarding the candidate? For what reasons have you rejected potential members?
I do now 
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You mean for profit?
Are we having the first Unstuck AMA?
People in the culture are long past the silly idea sex is defined as penetration. Everyone has erectile issues sometimes. Itās completely normal and when it happens people donāt bat an eye. They just move on to other fun.
I take it all of your clubs have ceased activities due to coronavirus.
Reminded me way too much of this
There is actually a membership committee which may or may not have board members.
After meeting they simply decide if any of the red flags I mentioned above are evident. Then as long as they donāt get the creeps they accept everyone.
Who said anything about penetration?
Yep. Itās is super common in really big cities. You buy a membership.
For example Iāve been here
Yep but a few dummies are complaining.
Just assuming I guess
Sounds like some memberships need to get pulled. Seems like these complainers donāt take member safety very seriously.
Any chances of those people being kicked out? If they donāt care about other peopleās safety over this, they could be a health risk in other scenarios.
@clovis8 The people Iāve known to get involved in swingers clubs have generally been either quite bored with their lives or trying to reclaim some control over their lives under authoritarian regimes. I guess you donāt agree?
You have to have some anecdotes about mishaps in the groups, right? Iām not talking anything criminal but the kind of thing youād see if PornHub had a comedy category on their website.
This is the discussion happening right now. Iām strongly of the opinion they should be removed as wanting to take this risk makes me worried what other risks they are taking.
Nope I agree. Thatās a very common MO. Not always of course.
It can work but only in specific circumstances.
I have seen people refused membership when it was clear they were making a hail marry pass at saving a doomed relationship.
Itās a terrible idea if your primary relationship is not solid and built on deeply open communication.
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