What our your fears? Why would this bother u? What if she was offended u wouldn’t and u felt like your lack of giving oral would cost u the nut?
That time the 70 years old Asian John ( do we call female mongers johns too?) was rubbing the condemn on his bald head while he was trying to get hard eating her out?
remember the rest of it but i think i blocked this part out. lolPooter
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Pooter would be an asset in threads like this . He’s my second favorite poster ever over there ( DVault#1)
The combination of screen name and those stories make him unforgettable. There was nothing like him. That barcode poster was incredible too. The dude never posted a word of text. Every post was a pic, vid, character or .gif.
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You’re bisexual? NTTIAWWT, definitely not shaming or anything. Just curious.
I figure that most people that use “people” in this spot are. However, given your prodigious level of posting and openness on all things related to sex, I’m surprised it never came up.
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I call myself 80/20 
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Actually prevalence is declining in the US and overall prevalence of HSV-2 (genital herpes) is 12% among all adults (50% for HSV-1). Something like a third of women have HSV-2 by the time they get to age 50 though, as it’s more common in women, and of course more common in older people given it’s a lifelong infection.
Conclusion: There’s nothing disgraceful about rawdogging just as long as you do it to inexperienced 18 year olds. You can hold your head high knowing you’re being extremely responsible.
Humblebrag that you know inexperienced 18-year-olds. Not many left.
I am recently divorced ( 1 year). I have been highly sexually active. I have had 10+ partners since. I am getting into the swinging scene here in Las Vegas. The standard in the lifestyle is condoms. Nothing for Oral. I have had unprotected sex only during my marriage. I miss it. I feel like it ruins the mood. Like here let’s have great foreplay then pause while I wrap up. I am 41. I have had those erection issues already mentioned. Sometimes the condom feels like it dies after extended use. I will have no sensitivity. For reference, I have two main partners currently. I have had PIV/oral every day during the pandemic. Probably gone through 150+ condoms. It’s not unusual to wear myself out after 15 minutes and toss the condom and then put a new one on later. They are a necessary evil. I hate them but have to use them given my lifestyle. I guarantee I have been exposed to HSV but have never had symptoms. I Had HPV warts before I was married. No idea where they came from. I was not that sexually active before moving out here. HPV/Herpes IMO are so widespread they are not worth worrying about. Condoms will protect me against most other stuff that could kill me. And while I am nonmonogamous I have to be responsible for myself and my partners.
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Have you tried the female condom? They just improved it. It helps a ton with sensitivity. Also make sure you are wearing the right sized condom. Sooooo many men are not.
The wreck the mood part is so easy to fix. You need to learn to incorporate the condoms into the scene you are building. It can be part of it, not some break to it. Teach her to put it on with her mouth! Put it on during cunnilingus.
As for erection issues, check your diet and get some viagra or cialis.
Lastly, if you have masturbated with the death grip your whole life you need to untrain yourself to get back sensitivity.
If I’d need a search party to find a girl’s clit, I’d rather not.
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For those discussing the common problem of losing that erection while putting on a condom, I’ve found actually discussing this and your fears about it with your partner can help immensely.
“Hey, this has happened in the past and so I worry about it happening and then that makes it more likely to happen. Talking about it makes it less likely.”
Not to say it still wont happen, but I find the fear it will–which is really a fear of the other person’s reaction–is really the biggest thing.
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Dating an ex-porn-star helped immensely with that one. If there were any issues she’d just plop it in her mouth. Somehow just knowing the fluffing was always there I never worried about it.
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HPV is absolutely something to worry about and leads to horrific outcomes in a small percentage of women (and some men). Thankfully the vaccine is effective and will be absolutely everywhere within a few more years if religious nutters and anti-sex people stop interfering.
This is a great post. Wish I had thought of it but losing the wood wen u go to put the rubber on can be as mental as it is physical.
Number one rule for any sex of any kind is…
Communication is the best lubrication.
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RE HPV: With the recent changes the HPV vaccine is available up to age 45. I thought about getting it but my doctor basically told me it would be a waste of money since I have probably already been exposed. I would have to pay out of pocket since my insurance (UHC) won’t cover. It’s like 600 bucks.
I love women who keep it natural, armpits included (come at me). It definitely goes all the way back to my youth, first time I saw it it totally blew my mind. I’ve never really thought of it as a fetish but I guess it qualifies as one.
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