I kinda think this is the wrong approach. It’s not that hard to imagine and i think it’s beneficial to do so.
I don’t think it’s hard to imagine how Jal, marty, fidget etc feel singled out on being excessively moderated on something that is part of their culture.
It’s not hard to imagine how Wookie or Jmakin feel unappreciated for taking time and effort to build/help the community
It’s not impossible to imagine why Sabo was hurt about people mocking or belittling some of his ideas or thoughts. It’s not hard to imagine why Clovis feel he was taken advantage of and is extra sensitive about things now.
It doesn’t have to be important to you to imagine how it can be important to someone else. I was legit real life angry for a couple of days because I felt someone trolled me in a walrus category. I’m not gonna judge anyone for taking things too seriously.
A big issue is that I feel like some of the people involved (and I only mentioned a few and it’s just a rough estimate on how they feel) don’t always bother imagining themselves.