Let’s try this again, shall we?
On the one hand, America has a problem with military (and police) fetishization. On the other, a lot of people who serve in the military are good people trying to do what they think is right. They’re willing to put themselves in harm’s way when the rest of us are not.
On the one hand, they aren’t responsible for our foreign policy blunders. On the other, our foreign policy blunders are now pretty predictable. To what extent are enlisted men and women responsible for the innocent civilians that are killed by our armed forces in the name of expanding American power abroad?
What does it feel like to be a member or veteran of the American military and find out that the president and his administration lied to you and to the country and used that lie as the casus belli to send you or our troops abroad?
In light of all of that, is it wrong to enlist? Or can one still do so with a clean conscience if their motives are pure? Is that answer different for someone who is 18, 21, 25, or 30+ years old?
How does one show appreciation for what they consider to be heroic actions, while also not supporting what they consider to be wrong? I personally stand for troops when asked, but I am not falling all over myself to say “thank you for your service” nine times out of 10, because I feel weird thanking them for things I don’t think they should have been asked to do - that our country should not have done.
Let’s have an attempt at a civil discussion. I’d like to cordially invite any Unstuckers who are members of the military or have been members of the military to answer any, all or none of the above questions. The obvious one is @skydiver8, if you are so inclined to weigh in.
For our veterans/military members, I’m curious of two specific questions. Do you have an example of a time that you did something in the service that you felt was really improving the world and made you proud? Do you have an example of a time you did something in the service that you felt was wrong and made you upset?
I’ll just leave this here and people can feel free to take it in whatever direction they want. Hopefully people can judge/disparage the institutions, the policies and the collective more so than any one individual, or at least keep criticism of individuals somewhat respectful.