take these pills, kids are cruel. identity at 13 or whatever seems a bit ambitious instinctually. forgive me
Still waitingâŚ
the policy is 6-foot social distancing at this time
So. I could ask if Rivaldo is really so fucking stupid he cant tell the difference between enjoying an old movie with problematic jokes (fine, to a point) and posting one of those jokes in a thread about trans rights.
Of course he isnt that stupid.
Instead we have the clearest example of what is happening in this thread. Progressive but otherwise privileged men, when faced with the slightest challenge to their progressive credentials, become instantly defensive and go on the attack.
The itâs reason why rivaldo didnt just say âugh, yeah, I guess that was ill advised. Still a good movie thoughâ. Itâs the same reason why riverman doubled down instead of engaging, itâs the reason why Chris is much more upset about accusations of transphobia against his white Male buddies than he is by the actual transphobia that surrounds his posts.
Honest question. Do you think those are the only two transphobic posts itt?
wtf is gender anyway?
a continuum from poles super masculine and feminine ?
Rivaldo is not a progressive.
What I was curious was that if the current status quo is focused more on inclusivity at the elite levels or if itâs determined that the conditions taken for trans athletes doesnât pose a large advantage.
There are lots and the posts where people reply about âfuckingâ a trans woman to posts about dating a trans woman are sexist first and transphobic second. Its like people are scared to say what they feel because they dont know what the progressive take should be yet.
If you wonât âdateâ a trans woman because sheâs trans and not because your not physically attracted to her its transphobic but understandable because thats how society has conditioned us.
Stay the fuck out of the thread asshole.
Is this exact case problematic just because she has actually won some events? Hypothetically if we could develop totally fair standards for participation, isnât that what we would expect?
It doesnât really seem to be a tenable position to say that you are ok with trans women participating as long as they never win.
yes.
I think some of the characterizations of her past and present performance have been intentionally misleading to drum up outrage.
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She set a bunch of school records (as a sophomore) when she was competing as a man, so Iâm not sure itâs all that noteworthy that she then set school records after undergoing HRT and competing as a woman. Seems like itâs just fair to say sheâs the GOAT U of Penn swimmer regardless of gender.
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The bit about how she was ranked #462 as a male swimmer and #1 as a female swimmer is because she continued to compete as a man while undergoing HRT as a junior so her performance suffered greatly relative to men.
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Itâs not like she is the GOAT NCAA female swimmer. Yes she just won the NCAA championship in an event, but she also lost in a bunch of other events (including finishing 8th out 8). In the event she did win, she finished just 1.75s ahead of 2nd place, and it was 9 seconds (aka a lot) off the NCAA record.
All in all, isnât exactly the sort of thing you would expect when a high-level male athlete transitions with HRT and competes with women? Sheâs highly competitive, but far from dominant.
Thanks for making this post as itâs something Iâve never considered as a term that could be construed as insensitive. As a hard sciences major a lifetime ago, I tried to take other courses that I thought Iâd learn something different from, and one of those was an Anthro course called âSex and Genderâ. Iâm 99% sure I used âbiological fe/maleâ several times in that class. It was taught by grad student that had no problem calling out phobic/ism so Iâm sure she would have told me. I guess thatâs how Iâve always framed it in my own mind as there is the distinction between the two sexes and many/fluid genders.
The reason people get labeled as transphobic in here is because theyâre posting shit about how she shouldnât be allowed to compete based on a bunch of bullshit Republican talking points, but theyâre incapable of actually stating what specific new policy they want the sports governing bodies to put in place or how they want them to enforce it. If this is such an important issue that you believe they need to change, what do you want changed? Otherwise admit that your opinion is coming from a shitty place and you need to do some self-examination on the topic.
The most intolerant, belligerent people in this thread, by far, are the self-appointed tolerance police. Youâre seriously not helping. And while I can take it and respond calmly most people with no interest in self improvement just tune you out completely.
Like Witchita came in hot with a drive by insulting me for having a white collar job? Great strategy.
Who is this post in response to?
âIâm not going to be tolerant unless people are nice to me, and the people being mean to me are the most mean of allâ is just a bad look.
Would still prefer you expanded upon what âtaking the Lâ on this issue entails.