It wasn’t a gotcha.
I’ve ignored people doing shit like that to you in the past because I assumed it didn’t bother you. I’ve even said that
Your post that I quoted was the first time I had actually seen you mention that it “might be hurtful for someone to intentionally misspell a posters name to make some dumb internet point”, which I didn’t see as a call for moderation or anything other than you saying that you had in fact found those dismissive posts hurtful. I quoted it here because it seemed somewhat relevant but I did a poor job explaining my thinking.