I have been dealing with the most frustrating health care/insurance issue ever over the past 4-5 months or so.
The prelude to this is that I have definitely been drinking too much for years. Especially since covid started. I would tell myself over the last couple years that I was going to take a week or a month off. I would make it 2-4 days and eventually fall back into it because my body hurt. Mostly back and neck. But also some more normal withdrawal stuff like headaches. So I spent the last couple years going through that cycle over and over. This year I got more serious about it and made it past the harder part back in March and was about 2 weeks in and I realized my neck and upper back hurt pretty much 24/7. Something is not right.
So I go to the doctor. I get an exam. He recommends a MRI and suspects I might have a disc problem. It is denied by my insurance. I being the weakling that I am fall back into the same cycle of self medicating. Fast forward to June. I have a normally scheduled doctors appointment and again my doctor sends the pre-auth for the MRI stating that things have not improved over time and it is again denied. This time they appeal and it is denied again. The insurance then recommends i get put on painkillers and go to physical therapy for 6 months. Which no chance in hell I should be taking opiates and my doctor is pretty firmly convinced physical therapy won’t help much. Although we never get to that last part because of what happens next.
Anyways at the point I realize nothing is going to happen with this again I decide maybe I am just being a wimp or something. I have been curling since late 2017 and hadn’t curled since March. But whatever, i guess I am just going to have to learn to deal with this. So i go to Dallas for a curling tournament the 2nd weekend in July.
Everything is going fine, we are doing well. In the quarters of our flight(4th game in 24hrs) we are losing. I get frustrated after missing a fairly easy shot. I am skating back on my curling shoes for my 2nd rock and i skate by the door into the ice which is broken so has been allowing hotter air onto the ice right there making it extra slick. I know this but am not thinking about it. A thing about curling shoes is that you have one that is insanely slick. That’s the shoe you slide on while delivering. The other has some grip to it. So to skate you hold the slick one flat on the ice and the other one is used for balance and momentum. Anyways I go through the slick spot. My gripper foot slips. I try and save it with my slider foot which just makes things worse and I take what I will call the old man in bathtub fall onto the ice. Right onto my upper back/neck. It knocked the wind out of me pretty good and my first thought was oh fuck I’ve really hurt myself.
But 30 seconds or so later i got my wind back, sort of got my wits back. Obviously I hurt but didn’t want to quit even though one of the people from the curling club thought maybe I should. We ended up making a big comeback and winning. Our big prize was to come back first thing the next morning at 830am and play in the semis. I was sore the next day but good enough to play. We were all tired and although tied late lose. Ok whatever. Probably best to not overdo it.
The next stage of the trip was to the DR. Ok perfect. A week to lay around and relax and recouperate. The first few days were fairly normal. Soreness. General discomfort in the usual areas. About day 4 I wake up and my entire left arm is numb, has weakness and has severe radiating pain. The numbness mostly fades but the other two symptoms are 24h a day. I go a day of this hoping things improve but they don’t. By the 2nd day of this i am trying to figure out what to do. Find a flight home, seek medical care or tough it out. Flights are insane expensive with bad long connections so that does not help me. My wife (the nurse) tells me that if I need surgery going to the doctor in the DR will not help me. Of course in the back of my mind I’m wondering if i had a stroke or heart attack or something even though i am 41.
So I tough it out. Things get worse and not better. Thankfully we had a nonstop flight home but the 4.5 hr flight was excrutiating. Because we flew from Texas after curling we have to drive home. It was literal hell on earth.
Now I left out one detail. After the fall but before we left for the DR I called my doc to tell them about the fall and to see if that would help the insurance situation. They said they would get back to me but had not called so I assumed denied again. I called first thing the next morning and they confirmed this and made me an appointment to come in to get examined and a EKG to try and rule out a heart attack.
The EKG was fine. The doc examines my neck and starts giving me all kinds of dire warnings. Do not go to a chiropractor with this kind of an injury out of desperation or you could be paralyzed. If the weakness in your left arm gets worse go directly to the ER you might need emergency surgery to save the use of your left arm. I’m pretty scared. He says they will keep fighting for the MRI. Gives me a script for some arthritis meds and a steroid. That was last Thursday.
I’m still in enormous pain and still have no MRI scheduled. He did send me for an xray last week to try and gather more evidence this is serious but so far my insurance company won’t budge. Meanwhile I am scared this situation will be permanent. I am scared of neck surgery.
And yes I was probably dumb to go play a sport on an ice rink when I already had the injury. But the injury was already there, it was getting worse not better, this probably just sped up the timeline. Not that I would know because I can’t get a diagnostic test. This is the one time post ACA I have needed anything serious. We have a Silver plan that is $973/month in premiums. Had I originally gotten the diagnostic test 4 months ago I would have done whatever was suggested. No chance I am doing 10 hours of curling over 36 with a disc problem. So I’m very angry at the insurance company both for denying me then. And obviously now it is terrifying.
TLDR: I have had a fairly serious neck injury for months recently made worse by a curling fall and my insurance wont pay to do the diagnostic test.