Winter 2021 LC Thread—I Want Sous Vide

Deezen’s attorney, Adam Hirshfield , tells us the actor feels like his life is in danger following the cyberbullying – but police have told him he’ll need to file for a no-contact order in court, if he’s that concerned.

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LOOOOOOOOL

The closest thing I saw to a complaint about makeup is telling one she looks better with the fake eyelashes. It didn’t seem like he threatened to leave if she didn’t, though he said he did stop coming.

I totally get you guys are probably right about this stuff, it just sucks for me.

I mean, your first sentence kind of gives it away.

That is like telling her to smile.

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I just can’t be bothered to feel attracted to woman solely due to looks.

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I go to my favorite restaurant in part because of the attractive servers. I asked two of them out a few years ago, though I’ve since learned that’s a bad idea and try not to say anything personal or sexual to any of them. I’ll run those tweets past one tomorrow and see what she says.

People here are definitely fighting for their right to something.

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It’s okay to say you like Hooters.

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I would be very, very reluctant to do this. It’s their workplace, they’re not there to meet guys. The internet literally has apps for that, why risk making someone uncomfortable in their place of work, where they are not able to leave and where suddenly they’re going to (rationally) expect that their tip is at risk if they aren’t flirty enough.

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Exactly. Cmon guys.

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Girls getting paid to be cheery toward random guys is something evolution didn’t prepare anyone for and is a magnet for super awkward situations.

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In general, never hit on a woman at work. No matter their kind of work.

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Not really. This has been happening for centuries only back then the guys raped them. Back in the 80s, not 1880s but also the 1880s. Chapo today or yesterday I listened to made the case well. Gay guys are almost the only truly nice guys on this planet. I’m paraphrasing but pretty sure that was their main idea.

The word “solely” there is quite the weightlifter.

Do looks matter? Well, yes. I basically have a floor to what I find physically attractive, probably a lower floor than some people here. Everyone above that floor is on an equal footing.

I know what kind of person I am. I need to have some degree of common interests and I need to have some level of respect for her intelligence. Otherwise, I won’t bother exploring the possibility of being attracted to her. At a bare minimum, I seek a woman who is capable of reading a book for pleasure, is willing to go to restaurants with me as I look for interesting experiences (even if she doesn’t always partake of what I eat), and has no problem with how much I play poker (because I am working on weekends).

And my own personal rule is to never hint at any interest in a woman until it’s been established that she’s not in a current relationship (or just coming out of one).

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The hottest girls I’ve dated are the most vapid almost always. I’m looking for that middle ground. I lived with a very hot girl for almost 2 years when in my 20s and I was really in love. I cheated on her and that sucked. I literally cried about it to myself more than once. Then, a “friend” who had a crush on her and knew about it ratted me out and though we tried to make it work and she tried to forgive me, we fought and it wasn’t the same. If I don’t find someone similar or with that connection I’m fine being single.

This country is so awful. This asshole makes all the money.

https://twitter.com/claytravis/status/1409301472496566279?s=21

Reporting live from the Portland metro, it’s TOO COLD and it is NOT FUCKING CLOSE.

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Or their whole damn job if the customer gets pissy and complains to her boss. It is absurd to think that propositioning someone whose job is to be pleasant to you is anything but coercive.

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I agree. Hopefully you have ac. All my plants/flowers are dead around my house from this heat. My garage isn’t insulated and it’s got to be 140 in there.