UP's Blind Spot for Sexism and Misogyny

Ty , I knew I wasn’t spelling “ Swinn” right lol. We have no public transportation so every J1 gets a bike immediately upon arrival.

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What exactly is gross w out adding your own fantasies drinking w buddies looking down at them and their panties?

Look. No one can force you not to be a douchebag. Just expect that you will get called out for it. You can then decide whether to modulate your behaviour or not.

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So u don’t find undergarments of your preferred gender (s) sexy or arousing?

Not when they are hanging on a clothes line.

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What if I took the underwear and hid it in my dresser and then they moved out?

They don’t live with me . I’m not sure where u got that. I have a separate floor that I use for pokerz, fantasy drafts and late night shanaagins . I also use it wen we feel like going the beach. I don’t live there.

Just reposting this to combat the gaslighting.

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Huh . Google “ how public forums work”

Where does it say my buddies and I look down at them while drinking ?

Ok so if I cop to it can I still be sexist and misogynistic?

Just to be clear, you’re talking about how much you like scoping out women’s underwear on their clothes line?

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The problems stems from the conjunction of both. In the absence of the “swamp donkey” comment, talking about an annual invasion of hot, young Euros might have seemed like the normal horndoggery of a normal man. In combination, some people could see it as a pattern of sexist microagressions that don’t create a welcoming environment for female posters.

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Or u could just have a panty raid

So, you are saying you have a fetish for dirty women’s undergarments?

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I think the weirdest part of this whole thing for me was learning that there are people who actually still use clotheslines. That’s actually a thing?

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As I review this thread, I’m realizing I’m going to have to overhaul my behavior. Mea culpa, but I still think of these threads as they existed on the other forum. In “those days”, there were def posts that far exceeded anything posted this evening. Dom’s porn director thread comes to mind, for example. And just today, I posted “working overtime on the seduction line” which now I’m questioning if that should have been flagged. I’m being a nit, but are the guard rails here really this narrow? I guess I want a ruling from a mod or something. I dunno.

ETA: Some of the replies get a little “blue” so I am referring to original post only which I read the subtext as “they were crazy and fun summers”. I’m gonna get hammered, so let’s get on with it. Release the hounds.

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I’ve considering installing one in my backyard real talk, I wind up hanging everything made of cotton in my bedroom after every wash as it is including all jeans

Dryers really suck and shorten the lifespan of most clothes by a lot.

On the other hand, hanging things leaves them incredibly wrinkled.