Mental Health Thread

I await the judge’s scoring and explanations.

My assessment:

Introverted: your energy is manifested from within

External Sensing/internal intuition: your intuition picks up on the concrete external details that signify social patterns

Dominant Thinking: How does this help? (rather than who does this help)

Judicious: external expression of internally defined boundaries

You are The Architect
ISTJ
Introduction | Architect (INTJ Personality) | 16Personalities

GENERAL

Architects question everything. Many personality types trust the status quo, relying on conventional wisdom and other people’s expertise as they go about their lives. But ever-skeptical Architects prefer to make their own discoveries. In their quest to find better ways of doing things, they aren’t afraid to break the rules or risk disapproval – in fact, they rather enjoy it.

This personality type comes with a strong independent streak. Architects don’t mind acting alone, perhaps because they don’t like waiting around for others to catch up with them. They also generally feel comfortable making decisions without asking for anyone else’s input. At times, this lone-wolf behavior can come across as insensitive, as it fails to take into consideration other people’s thoughts, desires, and plans.

Because Architects value truth and depth, many common social practices – from small talk to white lies – may seem pointless or downright stupid to them. As a result, they may inadvertently come across as rude or even offensive when they’re only trying to be honest. At times, Architects may wonder if dealing with other people is even worth the frustration.

But like any personality type, Architects do crave social interaction – they’d just prefer to surround themselves with people who share their values and priorities. Often, they can achieve this just by being themselves. When Architects pursue their interests, their natural confidence can draw people to them – professionally, socially, and even romantically.

Dominant Thinking

Whatever value people with the Thinking personality trait place on relationships, they can still dismiss emotional responses, either their own or those of others. This is often because of their discomfort with emotions, which don’t always follow the rational path they value. Sometimes, emotions just puzzle them. But that doesn’t mean they have hearts of stone. They often feel in deep, profound ways – they would just rather not decide matters from that place. And, perhaps unfortunately, they may see those who do as weaker decision-makers.

Personality types with the Thinking trait are likely to evaluate things almost relentlessly. This isn’t as bad as it sounds. They aren’t satisfied if they believe something is not well thought out – they revel in the brilliance of an elegant plan. This makes them great to have around when critical thinking and impartiality of any kind is the focus, and this makes them immensely helpful for sorting out ideas and methods.

Their primary filter is, “How does this help?” vs “Who does this help?”

Strength

Few personality types are as devoted as Architects to forming rational, evidence-based opinions. Rather than hunches or half-baked assumptions, they base their conclusions on research and analysis. This gives them the self-assurance they need to stand up for their ideas, even in the face of disagreement.

Weakness

Dismissive of Emotions – For Architects, rationality is king. But emotional context often matters more than people with this personality type care to admit. Architects can get impatient with anyone who seems to value feelings more than facts. Unfortunately, ignoring emotion is its own type of bias – one that can cloud Architects’ judgment.

Overly Critical – These personalities tend to have a great deal of self-control, particularly when it comes to thoughts and feelings. When the people in their lives fail to match their level of restraint, Architects can become scathingly critical. But this criticism is often unfair, based on arbitrary standards rather than a full understanding of human nature.

FRIENDSHIP

In friendship, Architects are looking for an intellectual equal as much as anything else. These personalities crave mental stimulation, and they can become bored by anyone who can’t keep up with the workings of their minds. Architects need to share their expansive ideas – making small talk is something they typically avoid.

It’s not always easy to befriend an Architect. People with this personality type have little patience for social rules. Instead, they look for friends who value intellect, honesty, and self-improvement. They may become bored or irritated by anyone who falls short of this mark. Fortunately, anyone who does share these qualities is likely to appreciate Architects as well.

In their friendships, as in other aspects of their lives, Architects prize independence. Social obligations can feel stifling to people with this personality type. Architects don’t want to feel beholden to their friends, and they don’t want their friends to feel beholden to them. For them, an ideal friendship is low drama, based on mutual respect rather than obligation.

Strength

Among friends whom they know and respect, Architects have no trouble relaxing and being themselves. Their sarcasm and witty banter may not be for everyone – especially people who struggle to read between the lines. But Architects reward their true friends with candor and insight, along with an endless supply of fascinating stories, ideas, and conversations.

Weakness

Of course, any friendship will have its dramatic moments. When sensitive or emotional situations arise, Architects may feel out of their depth. Even with their closest friends, these personalities may struggle to offer comfort – or receive it. Architects are used to feeling knowledgeable and capable, and this sudden cluelessness can be disorienting for them.

3/4. Guess which one you missed.

Let me think.

May need one of my lifelines.

Yes, I’ve used psychadelics for meditation and inner work. I did a couple of trip reports on 2p2, here’s one (post 4706).

One thing I’ve found very helpful is to write pre-trip notes to yourself. Setting an intention, or reminders, pointers. I have previously:

On the back of library catalog cards, I typed:

“Accept what comes. Observe.”

“Allow the energy to radiate.”

“This has all happened before.”

“You are complete and enough. Your worry is not serving you.”

“Let go.”

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I am prepared to make a guess but really would like a lifeline. Knock the choices to 50/50, let me poll the audience, PM one specific person, a riddle whose solution is the clue. A specific lifeline to inform yet constrain my guess.

I am researching for my second guess now so I’ll be ready when I come back to Final Answer or use the lifeline :crossed_fingers:

Ty just waiting for NB to consent or not :pray:

You can use ggoreo as a lifeline.

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Up to NB. I assumed PM but holup

Everyone can debate it openly, if you want.

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Well that’s what I get for posting notes with conclusions.

I would say INTJ or ISTP.

I’m somewhat now considering ISTP because while NB exerts expert manipulation, I perceive more of an internally manifested world than the compulsion to manifest that outwardly.

But am otherwise all aboard INTJ. An alternate profile:

Now it feels like I might have wasted the lifeline, but I guess I’m just glad the confusion didn’t get me DQd

The few times I’ve taken it, I fall almost squarely in the middle on all categories except the first and have most often gotten “IXXX” where X is inconclusive.

I think this stuff is just the pop psychology version of astrology but that’s my uninformed opinion.

I was going to ask you to post your results, but guessing each other’s type could be a lot of fun.

I don’t think that’s accurate though. His affinity for socializing (and his restraint toward indulging it) is different than whether his energy comes primarily from within or is primarily drawn from other people and social situations.

Not that being around people doesn’t sometimes fire me up, but I can’t be around people for long without needing to be alone to recharge.

It would be a delight. I will need some time to ponder.

You can guess mine - it’s all up in the air for me. Lol. I don’t really know what it means that I am so weak in the other areas. “Introverted” makes sense though - although the pandemic lockdown has shown me I am much more extroverted than I previously realized.

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Let’s call him a gregarious (heh) introvert

Any guesses for me @RiskyFlush? Just took it.

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This place is going to be like 75% INTJ even though they are supposed to be rare or some shit. Meyers Briggs is way less useful than Big 5 IMO. That last letter is mega important for your ability to make money, my experience has been that P’s just make way way way less. The difference between people who just perceive the world passing them by and the ones relentlessly judging it really is a pretty major dichotomy and the latter is going to be a massively better negotiator.

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At this rate we will need a Mental Health subforum lol

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