Yeah I had a pretty liberal friend in LA from Atlanta like that. Then he moved back to Atlanta and become a full-blown Trumper. Can’t be an outcast within your family (he has 8 siblings). That’s no fun.
The really interesting part to me is he used to hate his older brother, who’s something of a body-builder steroids influencer (anti-vaxx of course), with a passion. Now they’re best buds.
The only time in the book that I was 100% sure I needed to use semicolons was this paragraph:
Not in Central Baja. It’s the Walmart Supercenter of cactus viewing. We rolled through miles of garden wonderland packed with, among other flora: giant cardón cacti, which look similar to the iconic saguaros of the American West; ocotillos—spindly branches that look like a dead bundle of sticks half the year but produce blazing red bottle-brush blooms in spring; a variety of chollas—with their barbed spines that slice through clothing and embed into flesh; several species of iconic organ pipe cactus—including the “old man” variety, sporting his mop-top of gray hair; barrel cactus; prickly pear; and striking elephant trees—their pot-belly trunks sprouting gnarled, white-bark branches with dark creases at the knuckles.
And I still had to fight with my copy editor over it. But I found some stuff online that said semi-colons were ok for lists where commas didn’t work. So I stuck to my guns.
I look at semicolons as a substitute for “and” when “and” would sound awkward. Periods can often be used instead, but to me (and I write and edit for a living, but was neither educated nor formally trained in that field, so this is just my feeling), that makes it feel like two separate thoughts. A semicolon keeps them linked.
Again, just my opinion, not a formal writing rule.
There are times when I want to use a semi colon, but I’m only like 80-90% sure and using a semi colon incorrectly is like super embarrasing as it’s like saying I think I’m really intelligent, but actually am not and just pretentious.
I’ve heard it may have changed for the younger kids. But folks who grew up under apartheid. Impossible not to be damaged.
I even knew a lady who had been an anti-apartheid white student leader, had met Nelson Mandela, and helped bring the system down… Still super racist in how she viewed the world.