Confidence. That shit isn’t gonna burn your house down. You’re gonna make a fuckin SAUCE.
(Place booze in pan off the direct heat, reduce as possible off heat and flambé once you have a bit of reduction - the more it cooks off indirectly, the less flames you’ll have to deal with)
((Depending on your dining companion, she/he may be aroused by your flame management. In which case…direct flames & YOLO))