I have had convos with such people where they say that actually asking someone what their pronouns are is offensive to some and we need to be “sensitive” to that or some other bullshit.
When you ask them to explain further about why exactly it is offensive it’s just word salad.
I’ve never heard of this and in my business I use the word stakeholder hundreds of times a day. In my context it means a third party of a deal that has an interest. I don’t see how Business settings could be used in its place? Also curious as to the reasoning.
The issue with the word stakeholder is that in a colonial context, a stakeholder was the person who drove a stake into the land to demarcate the land s/he was occupying/stealing from Indigenous territories.
Well fuck! You learn something everyday. I’d guess 50% of the time I use that word I’m talking about or to indigenous people. Hmmm. I’ll have to ask a few indigenous friends about this one.
Personally? Yeah, but it’s also worth remembering that homophobia, much like racism, isn’t just about personal animus but more about the structure of society, and in that regard, it is very much a reflection of the homophobia baked into society. It’s worth eliminating, even if there are still a ton more things to do also.
I often use “jerk” or “jerk face,” especially in front of the girls.
We have bifurcated into two conversations. One about terms with obvious offence widely agreed on by the targeted oppressed group and one more about how history is embedded in language. They are linked but different.