OK,
I think I’ve got it now. The challenge becomes how to bridge the gap here.
Basically, this is a philosophical debate that we (the collective we, meaning everyone in the proverbial Democratic big tent) need to address. I’m not sure if it will ever be solved, but a little understanding might help.
From your answers to my questions, it seems that you believe that policy and morality are the same, or at least carry the same weight on some kind of moral hierarchy. I’m not going further than that because my real purpose here is to state my position from the same starting point.
As for me, I do not believe that compromising on policy is equal to moral compromise, but I think that comes down to my understanding of what policy actually is.
Policy is a tool to achieve morality, it is not morality itself. Thus, I do not believe that a politician’s morals are necessarily compromised if they vote on a policy that compromises on their stated position. Someone can still believe that health care is a human right (arguably a moral position) and then vote yes on the ACA (arguably a compromise on policy) and not have compromised their morals. Also, different policies may produce similar outcomes, and I believe that advocates for one or the other aren’t necessarily compromising on morals should they support one of those policies over the other.
As an (very simple) analogy, If my goal is to join two pieces of wood together, I am not compromising on that position by choosing to use three nails, even if my coworker chooses to use two screws.
In the second question, I also believe that not commenting doesn’t mean you’re compromising your morals. I made this question slightly more specific than the first for a reason, though. Plainly stated, I do not believe that a candidate for school board (for example) declining to state their position on a national or international issue means that they are morally compromised.
So where do we go from here? Do you think this makes me a terrible person? I honestly just want to take a step toward a more just future for all, but if you think I’m a monster for choosing a guaranteed step forward over a 1-in-100 chance leap, then I don’t know how to reconcile that.