you might be, literally, the last person on this board who should be attempting to make this argument
So just in case thereās more to it, you realize you were being a giant asshole right? Like you were criticizing me for how I told someone I hoped they were doing better. I figured it was likely you were drunk because it was late on a Friday. Seems like fair play given the expected standard of behavior here.
If that cuts against you more for whatever reason, Iām sorry.
Please tell me you mean me, referring to your callous indifference (being most charitable) towards seeing a trans girl (her name was Leelah Alcorn) throw herself in front of a truck due to religious conversion therapy abuse (of which you had sympathy for the parents) and, please tell me you mean Yuv, who banned me for how combative my phrasing was of this reference.
Cuz boy Iām about to win a big ass bet:
A whale friend took the other side for the lulz.
Did you put your fingers in your ears during Succession when you sensed another ā ā ā ā word was coming?
Canāt think why ikestoys would want to stop people from calling others ā ā ā ā ā and Naziās.
this is not what happened, sweetie. but more to the point, the dude who wrote,
and
should not be lecturing the forum on decorum and standards of behavior.
I think a lot of people donāt do well when you allow those types of insults. See, KONY bringing up a 3 month post or you being mad about being called a racist about some sort of ethnic food that happened what, years ago?
Me, otoh, will be just fine. Iāve been just fine on politics and PU. Iāve been just fine on various CFB boards that are waaaay more intense than anything here. Itās a bad way of running a site, because feelings get hurt and leads to the incessant bickering you see here.
Sure.
Iāve been fine, I tell you, just fine!
Geddit?
IāM FINE!
Holy fuck this is what I mean:
Do you understand that there are people here who have fucking PhDs in history and anthropology and psychology and what not?
I hate being an ageist so this will feel rough, but your quoted sentence isnāt even just something a child would say, itās something a stupid child would say. Along with those PhDs, people here also have tween and teen children.
āAw dad the party I threw when you were gone was a year ago why are you bringing up OLD STUFFā¦ā
I actually quite like that analogy because the only reason you should be bringing up the age of the incidents is so you can say something like, āSorry, that was 3 months/years/x ago and Iāve been trying to be better.ā
Like what happens when you open a history book? Are you confounded that theyāre writing about Old Stuff?
What happens when you go to therapy? Does the therapist say, āTell me about your childhood Ikes,ā and do you start screeching about Old Stuff?
Bruh just shut the fuck up and stop trying to (what I have to assume is the case at this point) actively trying to ruin this forum even further.
Lol mf made me use up three throttles already and I havenāt even talked about The Doxxening yet.
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What about forums where people post their own real names?
I requested to remain a mod specifically to deal with being doxxed/threatened with doxxing, which is clearly still relevant. The only mod actions Iāve taken since I stopped posting have been editing my old full screen name from posts, and ironically helping AQ when he was possibly doxxed by another user. (IIRC he was not, someone used a full name directed towards him and I happened to see it quickly and messaged him.)
Iāve had to remove my initials repeatedly, my old screen name repeatedly, and now I find out my real name was posted. If this community stopped allowing that kind of behavior, I wouldnāt want/need mod status. Obviously that hasnāt been the case.
The fact that this is still an issue seven months after my last post on this forum demonstrates where the problem lies, and that itās not going to stop on its own.
As Iāve explained in the past, I donāt care about people here knowing my real name or past screen names, the issue is that I donāt want those things searchable here, hence Iāve asked that they not be posted. I think this is a very reasonable request for any user to make. In my case itās due to the character attacks against me here, for someone else it might be their political views and how that could impact them in a workplace or whatever.
I am disappointed by Unstuckās cavalier attitude about doxxing, and I hope serious action is taken this time. This isnāt just an attempt to annoy someone or troll someone, posting identifying information on a searchable forum has the potential to cause āreal worldā harm to users. And apparently I wasnāt the only one AQ doxxed?
I suggest that the @admins and @moderators figure out a way to prevent this in the future, and a good first step would probably be making sure the entire community knows this has been happening to multiple users, rather than letting it get buried in About Moderation and Bickering threads.
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I donāt think someone should have their name repeatedly posted forever because they posted it before
shush, you chattering geese
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Why is Commonwealth bringing up Old Stuff?
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Continues to be astonishing to me something as simple as āno doxxingā which every single corner of the internet figured out 20 years ago is even an issue here. And all because Mike Pence didnāt have the courage.
lol you need to be a moderator to keep people from typing Cuse in a word rectangle on this website? wild stuff, fuck off guy.
Like, youāre going to edit out the āc*** ro*nderā in this post? To what end? Who gives a fuck my man? Youāre delusional if you think anyone irl gaf.
And no, typing āCuseā in this word rectangle is not doxing you.
edit: rofl instantly edited by c*** Rounder
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Your real name wasnāt posted. A pun on it with you as offspring of the Elephant Man was posted.
Barbara Streisand itt
āAQās not a creep, heās a hypercreepā
I guess Iāll just use my 10 minutes to quote myself
This is all forum war shit, just like it was when you ran off a respected admin so you could go pal around with a different former admin
Any minute now weāll get a Friday Night ITYSL gif and itāll feel just like old times
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The no mod criticism allowed team sure seems to love complaining about moderation
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