This will be bloggish and I apologize but I want to pause and reflect on this expansion for a moment.
The burning crusade is over in just a handful of days. hard to believe now. my journey has been absolutely wild - from messing around in vanilla on a mage on Remulos, somehow getting to level 50 before realizing it was an australian server, to re-rolling on Faerlina in may 2021 to boost a hunter with @RegretS who quit within a week. Then, end up joining a guild, immediately becoming co-gm, and re-rolled a druid because we were lacking good healers. Woops, there went my hunter, basically never touched him again.
That first guild in P1 was a big learning experience. Led my first raids through kara, ended up with 3 of them, and having to delegate raid leading of the third to someone I trusted, because at that time I didn’t have a third toon to use a lockout on. The other GM, who really had final say on everything because he formed the guild to begin with, decided to do a really stupid thing and change our loot system to DKP, but that combined with our lack of a solid 25 man raid (there was barely any 25 man content in p1, so I never prioritized it, I advised people to pug, which people hated) and the inexplicably long phase 1 which caused tons of people to quit en masse, and the guild fell apart when I just couldn’t carry it on my back anymore. Lots of lessons I didn’t learn there.
Next guild, piece of crap elysian. These guys I clicked a lot more with as friends, none of them were super amazingly good but neither was I. I got recruited by a real ass-kicker of a rascal of an officer named swig, and I loved his no-nonsense attitude when it came to slackers and whiners. However, this wasn’t popular with some folks, and he also tried to do way too much on his own, and he burned out right before p2 and I found myself taking his de-facto role in the leadership, and was minted as an officer.
Those days were really hard. P2 was crazy hard for dad guilds to begin with, and we just lost half our roster with swig, who was also our recruiter and main raid leader. so, i stepped up big time. We only got 10/10 right before the nerf, but I considered that a massive success. there were lots of big moves I negotiated at the time.
For instance, I had to make a really hard choice at one point - we had an AWESOME druid healer named nick, and he had 2 buds who weren’t amazing but not bad at all either, plus one was a shaman, which were always in need. Well, our raid nights didn’t work well for them. The thing was, they were the only ones the raid nights didn’t work for, and we could have switched for them, but doing so would cause us to lose another small guild we had absorbed, led by this decent warrior main tank and his friends, all of which were reliable raiders.
So I had to choose between our best healer (knowing full damn well I’d have to carry my ass off on healing if he left) and losing our main tank + what was our future co-gm and raid leader. ugh. i chose that tank, and I wish I didn’t, because that asshole still owes me $70 he never paid back.
well we progressed into p3 a lot thanks to me, IMO. Not only did I keep that raid alive, I farmed my ass off for enchanting mats (probably dumped 20k of mats I had farmed by myself into the g bank, which of course is why I’m so broke now), recruited, organized, learned all the encounters. It was actually going pretty well til we picked up this kiss ass new officer that came out of nowhere and tried to make raid decisions, despite never having played classic before and only like the last 2 expansion of retail - which, no judgment there, but he clearly knew nothing about the game and was pretty arrogant about it.
My decisions started taking a back seat and I started getting unhappy because at the same time, and I’m not drawing any conclusions here, but at the same time I stopped making decisions was when our entire raid went fucky. Then, to make up for lack of progress, they tried making people go past our stop time, and one night I refused, because we had already wasted 2 hours that night on stupid shit I told them not to do, and since I had hard switched to main tank by that point, that was the end of it. I never went back.
I STILL didn’t learn my lesson, because these same assholes recruited me into warmane to play with them there, I used the opportunity to learn DK. Bought a ton of gold and gave it to them pretty generously. One day they cleaned me out and kicked me from everything, out of nowhere, and one dude followed me around the game world for days (he still does if he can find me) just to harass me. Don’t know what i did.
i consider tbc a mixed success. didn’t do everything i wanted to do, but got to kill some bosses I never touched the first time around, got into BT like first week, etc. Never cared for ZA or sunwell so I skipped them. no regrets there.
NOW I am a new man. I have learned all my dumb lessons. I have my own guild now. They’re a quiet, small bunch so far, but this has a way better chance of being successful because I am making the decisions and I have already done my homework for this expansion, I know nearly every class in and out (except shaman), at least enough to design a well-oiled raid. I want two 10 man raid teams, hopefully the second consisting of a bunch of people’s alts so it’s mostly the same 5-7 guys every week.
other than spamming I’m just gonna organize my own pugs the first several weeks of p1 while I continue focusing on making gold, and recruit people from those. I hope my raid leadership and relaxed, confident attitude will convince people to hop on board. Things I need to work on are not losing my temper when people can’t listen to instruction. another thing I got a lot of feedback on while raid leading that people don’t like is the fact that I cuss a lot. I’m not usually angry when I do it. I used to work on a boat, and the stereotype of sailors swearing is absolutely true, and now I work in tech, where people also cuss a lot - for some reason though, people reaaaaaaaaallly hate it when the raid leader does it. like it’s not “professional” or something. mfer we’re cows in dresses trying to kill warcraft-vader. It’s fine.