Hmm. Now that I think of it, I don’t think I’ve ever used the word “banter” IRL other than ironically with scouse/geordie friends. Is it a northern thing?
Edit: just remembered, an ex used to describe people as having “good banter”. She was Scottish, from the Edinburgh side.
The more I think about it, the more I think you might be right there. I’ve never really pondered it before.
Lol, well my response looks a bit stupid in light of your edit. Obviously I don’t go around calling random people ■■■■■■
Grunching again,
are you by any chance referring to this post:
?
I see.
this mf said acclamed
This tweet came across my timeline and my knee jerk response was “without a doubt”.
https://mobile.twitter.com/jesqa_/status/1295565868152156160
Thinking about it though do I? I certainly admire a lot of women. I also do not have a lot of male role models, just a few and most are now deceased. Plus this male role models took form for me while I was relatively young. Have plenty of men I admire, but not putting anyone new up there as a role model.
Thoughts?
Also my mom is close for me but I had a pretty turbulent childhood relationship with my mom due to many factors. As I grew up my respect and admiration grew deeply. My dad was a role model for me since consciousness.
I wouldn’t really call anyone a hero of mine, but I nominate Jane Goodall.
Basically this.
One of my best friends mom is a hero of mine. Grew up in the jim crow south and still has an amazing amount of compassion for her fellow humans. Also has a book of poetry that is published and has promised to write and read a poem at my wedding.
AOC is currently my only hero. Other than Cristiano Ronaldo, who is a hero in genetics only.
I have no heroes as I think the concept is flawed. As for women I admire and respect they would be counted in the tens of thousands or more.
Yes the term hero should of been defined better but I think we all know what the OP was asking.
We just need to understand that humans are flawed. Hero’s are not perfect people.
To me a hero is someone that has a set of guiding principles and strive to live by those principles daily. When they come up short they notice the disparity and try again.
I am not sure hero and role model are the same thing.
Edit: so weird I thought the tweet asked about role models not hero’s. I was asking myself why is everyone talking about heroes.
I agree with not having any heroes. What about role models.
I don’t have heroes now but when I was younger Lynn Hill and Catherine Destiville sure where.
Lynn made first free ascent (male or female) of El Cap.
Catherine did a bunch of hard solos in the Alps.
Name them. 
Nice brag imo 
You might be over estimating my prowess somewhat.
